Zicoflex First time sex can be
pretty awkward and
uncomfortable,
especially when you
are experienced and
she is not.
You are the one guy
that gets to
introduce » her to
sex and you want to
make the encounter
a memorable and
pleasurable one so
she does not freak
out and run out the
door.
Take control: You’re
the experienced one
here, and she’s going
to need your firm,
but gentle, guidance.
In fact, shes going to
expect it, so don’t be
afraid to lead with
confidence; women
love men who take
charge in the
bedroom. Let her
determine the pace,
but never lose sight
of who’s teaching
whom. You’re the
expert; it’s your job
to gauge her level of
arousal. You want her
incredibly horny (and
as wet as you can
get her) before you
go the whole nine
yards. She’s going to
remember this for
the rest of her life.
Relax her
It’s natural for her to
feel a bit jittery, but
you can ease much
of that anxiety with
a few simple tricks.
She’s likely to be
feeling self-
conscious, so start
with a few
confidence boosters.
Tell her she’s sexy
and let her know she
looks fantastic in
your bed. Even if she
already knows this,
hearing you say it will
do wonders. Spend
extra time kissing,
letting her know
you're focused is
on her, and not just
her body. Talk to her
as you touch her
body, find out what
she likes and what
she doesn’t. It may
sound one-sided, but
this should be all
about her and what
she’s offering you —
as opposed to what
you’re taking. Let her
know this, and she’ll
relax completely.
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Turn her on
No doubt it sounds
like an obvious tip,
but this one is more
overlooked than you
might realise. You
want her so hot
she’s purring with
lust and begging for
it — and you want
to keep her that way
until the moment of
truth. Unfortunately,
many men break the
mojo just before
penetration. It’s not
intentional, they just
get a bit tense
knowing they’re
about to cause their
partner a minor
amount of pain.
Relax, she knows
what's coming and
she’s not going to
hold it against you. Go
slowly, but don’t
forget to kiss and
caress her as you do.
This gives her
something else to
focus on and keeps
her aroused, which
will actually decrease
her sensitivity to
pain.
Be willing to slow
down and stop
She may be ready
and willing at the
start of the evening,
but be prepared for
that to change
before the deed is
done. Rest assured, it
doesn’t mean she
doesn’t want you, it
just means she’s not
ready. Some women
are more sexually
liberated than others
— her virginity might
be something she
can’t cope with losing
right now. On the
other hand, she
might just need a
little reassurance.
She may need
evidence that you
really care about her
and are willing to
wait. A willingness to
stop and take a step
back is often all the
proof a woman
needs. It may even
be enough for her to
decide to keep going.
Either way, a little
compassion in this
area will earn you
major points.
Just because she’s a
virgin doesn’t mean
she’s a cold fish;
she’s probably just
waiting for the right
man to come along
and show her how
it’s done. A little
compassion in this
arena could land you
a very loyal woman
who’s eager to
please » . Don’t shy
away from the "good
girl" — step up to the
plate and show her
what she’s been
missing out on