1
Make sure you look
and smell nice. You
don't need to get decked
out in a suit and tie to ask
a girl out, but make sure
your clothes are clean and
well-fit, that you've
brushed your teeth and
are wearing deodorant.
You should never ever
wear the same clothes
again, like you wear red
sweatpants Monday, and
then you wear them again
on Tuesday.
2
Approach the girl you
like. Don't worry about
coming up with something
overly clever. Simply say
"Hi" or "Hey." As the
conversation moves
forward you can give her
a complement or ask her a
question.
If starting
conversations is not
your strong point, read
these articles:
How to Talk to
Strangers
How to Come Up with
Good Conversation
Topics
3
Keep the tone casual
and fun. Don't make the
occasion seem like a big
deal. Flirt a little! Relax,
crack a joke, and break
the touch barrier.
4
When the time is
right, ask her for a
date. Ask her to go the
movies or something else
you both would be
interested in. You could
also invite her out to
happy hour at a bar you
both enjoy. Try to make it
original.
You might say: "I heard
about this movie, ______
_. What do you think
about it?" If she says
she thinks it looks
good, ask her if she'd
like to go with you to
see it. If she asks "As
in a date?" say yes.
Girls like guys who are
sure of themselves
much better than they
do the cowardly guys.
Another thing you might
say while keeping the
tone casual is: "I was
going to check out this
art opening on
Saturday night. Do you
want to go with me? I
think it would be fun if
we both went together."
5
Be confident. If she
questions if you're asking
her on a date, say yes.
Girls like guys who are
sure of themselves.
6
Be prepared for
rejection. Keep your
cool if she says no, smile
and respond gracefully by
saying, "No problem!
Maybe another time."
Change the conversation
to something else or leave
if you'd rather not hang
around. Act as if you don't
need her, because that
sometimes will pique the
interest of a girl. If she
makes a face and yells,
"Oh my gosh, no way!" this
means that the girl is
grossed out with you.
Leave her alone and move
on to another girl. Don't
get your feelings too hurt
though, this will leave you
lifeless. Some girls just
don't like this kind of stuff